I’m sorry to say that my mum, June, John’s widow, passed away yesterday. She’d been diagnosed with cancer some two years ago, but had been well enough to still live alone at home, albeit with carers visiting, until just a couple of months ago.
Unfortunately she started struggling with dementia, and after a brief spell in hospital found a place in a local nursing home. Fiercely independent until the end, she hated the place. Sadly she faded fast, and passed away yesterday. I had visited her the previous day, and Jenny was with her at the time, so she had her goodbyes, and knew we were there with her. She’d also seen her grandchildren recently.
There’s an outstanding question about her condition that might entail a post-mortem or inquest, so I’ll post more details once we know what’s happening, similarly for funeral details once we have them. Jenny is currently dealing with this as she’s local. I do know mum has requested a cardboard coffin and no flowers: she was nothing if not pragmatic.
Jenny put this better than me:
21/11/24 at 946pm this world lost the most amazing and devoted Mother, sister, wife ,Grandma. How our lives will go forward with out you mum i don’t know . But all that knew you or met you remarked what a lovely softly spoken lady you were . Whether it be at the doll fairs or church or painting group you touched us all.
After a long and brave battle God took you home to my dad and those who we have lost & morn for.
RIP Mary June O’Donnell age 87 you were pure class but above all you were my mum and I love you.
Thank you to all the fantastic staff at Westwood Lodge nursing home and Wigan & Leigh hospice.
